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About Toracon

Is there anything I need to bring with me on my first visit?

You do not need to bring anything with you the first time that you come.
There is no dress code either, but we will also consult on appropriate clothes for matchmaking so if you are concerned about this, please come in the clothes you will use at that time.
We would ask that you visit the store at least once or come to a free web-based counseling session even if you intend to join. We will not engage in any pushy solicitation.

Is it possible to complete the contract procedures without visiting the office?

Depending on your preference, you can also choose to carry out procedures via the Web.

Three different approaches

  • Visit the store
  • Electronic agreement
  • Agreement by post

Currently, you have three options. We also offer free counseling via the Internet, Web procedures performed via post, and electronic agreements via email.

This means you can engage in the activities even if you don’t directly come to the store. Please inquire based on your preference.
Of course, it is also possible to receive free counseling or first counseling before activities via the Internet, so please tell us your preference.

We can also direct you to our stores, so please check this information.

How does it differ from other matchmaking services?

Toracon works as a “marriage consultant” where an expert otaku advisor works with you to support you until you are successfully matched.

We are a member of the Japan Marriage Agency Federation (hereafter, “IBJ”) , and, therefore, have established strict membership screening standards to support high-quality encounters, relationships, and successful matches. This has led to us being ranked in the top 10 for successful matches within the Japan Marriage Consulting Federation, and we have a large number of success stories.

Features of Toracon

  • All advisors are otaku
  • Accumulating organizational knowhow and organizational support
  • We conduct matchmaking with understanding of the hobbies valued by our members, so there is a firm basis for the matches.

Not only do we have good numbers, but we have also accumulated extensive knowhow regarding the ins and outs of otaku matchmaking, and we are a leader in the industry. Compare us with others and consider us for all your otaku needs. We think that if you need to hide being an otaku when looking for somebody who understands your hobbies this makes things more difficult. We recommend confirming which place is best suited for you in order to proceed with your matchmaking in the shortest possible time.

About the members

What is the male/female ratio?

Agency Federation Ratio

Male/female: 4:6

For marriage consultancies, the ratio of women normally tends to be higher. The ratio is 40% men and 60% women, including members from the Japan Marriage Agency Federation who are compatible for matching in the system.

In Toracon, however, the gender ratio is closer to 60% men and 40% women. This characteristic allows both men and women to participate in Toracon with a favorable ratio. The advantages and disadvantages of the gender ratio differ depending on the region. At Toracon, we provide strategic matchmaking support, so please ask during counseling for more detail.

Toracon ratio

We can also provide advantageous matchmaking consultations customized for the region.

What kind of people tend to succeed?

Characteristics

  • People with the perspective that despite there being many rivals, they can choose their marriage partner.
  • People who don’t just register at marriage consultancies, but also actively apply for marriage matches themselves.
  • Those who don’t badmouth other people but look for their positive aspects
    *Looking for defects=Looking for someone you don’t wish to marry(Conversely, if you want to find a marriage partner, look for their good points)
  • People who show consideration for their partner when arranging marriage matches or dates
  • People who can honestly accept the advisor’s advice

The people described above tend to get married quickly.

What kind of people are the members?

Data concerning Toracon members is published in “Toracon members/IBJ members,” so please refer to this information.

About joining Toracon

What level of Japanese proficiency is required to participate in Toracon?

Counseling and emails are available only in Japanese. If you can speak conversational Japanese, please feel free to contact us.

Can I still find a match if my circumstances are unfavorable?

Matchmaking Promotion Guidelines

Annual salary:For those in their 30s, an annual salary of 3 million yen or more. For those in their 40s, an annual salary of 4 million yen or more.(Approx:age ×100,000 yen)

If you have the requisite income but still cannot make a match: in this case it is likely that other factors are affecting the result
⇒Over half the cases are a result of profile pictures and about half are due to the profile content
There are people who get better results by reviewing what criteria they seek in their partner or their current status

Health status:People healthy in both mind and body have advantages for matchmaking
⇒However, even when this is not the case, there are people who are successful in matchmaking by narrowing their target range or emphasizing other conditions to raise their popularity. You should discuss this with free counseling.

Home ownership:If you have purchased a home, a key point may be whether you are prepared to let it go.
⇒There are those who have succeeded by letting it go and others who withdraw because they are unable to reach that decision.
※In the case of women, some men are OK with this

Remarriage:Actually, in many cases people remarrying have better success
⇒As they have experienced marriage once, and the fact you have been chosen by somebody before makes it easier to go forward with matchmaking.(Although some people prefer people marrying for the first time.)

Overseas transfer/overseas residence:Although this is actually a rare case, it tends to be popular due to the balance of supply and demand.

We also accept consultations on other matters, so if you have any concerns, please bring them up during the free counseling session.
Click here for Entry qualifications.

Are there any eligibility conditions?

To be eligible, you will need to be 20 years or over and single (a certificate proving you are single is required), and males need to be in regular employment (or have a stable income). You can also enter for the purpose of remarriage. A screening process shall be required on entry.

※The main criteria are that individuals, when engaging in activities, be able to follow the rules and etiquette, follow the advice aimed at achieving a successful match, and take part in a sincere manner.

I don’t particularly like anime or manga. Can I still join?

Yes, you can.
There has been a marked increase in people interested in YouTube and 2.5D recently, particularly among those who are interested in anime, games, and manga. As everyone values their own particular hobby, they are very open to other hobbies as well.

If you have any particular requests regarding your potential partner, please ask us during the counseling session.

※In terms of the otaku level, there are many light otaku recently, and many of our members state that they have not watched anything recently.

Can you I join even if I am not an otaku?

Yes, you can.

Many people say they “want to meet somebody who understands them,” so as long as you can accept your partner’s hobby and not be judgmental, you can join.

The secret to success is to be able to think from the perspective of a person of the opposite sex.

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In the case of women, those who like products aimed at men will tend to have the most in common with them and better chances of a match.
In the case of men, not rejecting women’s hobbies, being accepting of them, and not forcefully sharing their own favorite works.

About the fees

What types of discounts are available?

The following discounts are available:

  • Hobby enthusiast discount
  • Creator discount
  • Toranoana creator discount
  • fantia creator discount

For details, navigate to this page: https://toracon.jp/plans/
We also regularly offer other seasonal discounts, so please check these out on the TOP page.

Can you define the creator discount for me?

We have a discount just for creators involved in the production and sale of anime, manga, games, doujinshi, and figures, etc. In principle, we judge whether there are opportunities for you to receive income merely through your own works (products, events, etc.) If it is difficult for you to judge this, please ask us.

About the activities

Can you deal with any problems that occur during the activities?

Pre-dating

One unavoidable aspect of encounters found through marriage consultancies is breakups or the end of relationships. Breakups tend to be the most contentious thing in normal romantic relationships, but in the case of matchmaking, the aim will be to move on to the next meeting as smoothly and with as little stress as possible. At Toracon, the matchmaking advisor and staff handle the termination of relationships instead of the individuals involved, which helps reduce stress and allows for smoother relationships. According to the rules of the Japan Marriage Agency Federation, it is prohibited to contact each other after the end of the relationship, so it is likely that there will be no further communication between the parties. Toracon can act as intermediary even if contact is made in such a case. The other party may be liable to expulsion if they are unable to follow the rules, so there are no circumstances in which problem scenarios linger on. This allows you to carry on your activities with full peace of mind.

Serious dating

We also provide support in case of problems occurring in serious relationships. However, if the relationship is already in the proposal and meeting the parents stage, the couple may be engaged, so a unilateral termination may be considered a breach of this agreement. Therefore, if you find yourself in such a situation, we encourage you to ask our advice on how to proceed.
※Pre-dating can be terminated without too much fuss, but, as the name implies, serious dating implies a committed relationship. It is important to understand the significance of this difference when engaging in relationships to prevent any confusion.

What can I expect from the meetings with the Toracon advisor?

The available meetings are as follows:

  • Face-to-face meetings
  • Web meetings
  • Telephone meetings

You can choose from the above formats.
Additionally, from the initial questionnaire, we will ascertain whether advice or empathy is a priority for you, and conduct the meeting based on that information.

How to reserve the meeting

Tell us your preferred date via email, phone, or system message, whatever method is most convenient for you. You can submit your request to the advisor at any time after you start your activities. Requests are accepted through any of these methods, so feel free to use the one that suits you best. The advisor may also make suggestions as required. Note that even if you suspend your activities, you can still receive consultation services, so we encourage you to use them in preparation for resuming your activities. This is especially useful if your activities are not going well, as using consultations to adjust your approach can lead to better results in matchmaking.

At what times is consultation possible?

  • On application/when you cannot choose your matchmaking partner
  • When things are not going well with applications or matchmaking
  • When you don’t know how best to move forward with your relationship
  • When you don’t know if the person you are dating now is right for you
  • When you don’t know what is not working well

Consult with us at any time. When it is hard to consult with the representative in charge, you can talk to another member of our staff. It is also possible to change the representative.

What is the activity period for successful people?

The average length of the activity period for members for success through our services is about 10 months.
The shortest activity period for success is one month.

Is it possible to take a break from activities?

You can take a break in your activities for up to 3 months. However, you cannot take a break while dating or when a meeting is set up. Additionally, membership fees are calculated on a monthly basis. We can discuss things in case of urgent situations, such as changing job or illness, etc. so please check with our staff.

※You can still consult with us while you are on a break, so feel free to do so.

Can I start the activities as soon as I join?

You will need to submit a certificate proving you are single, certification of your academic history, certification of your income, and a photo. After completing the member registration process, you will be able to start your activities. On average, the process takes about two weeks. You can choose to start your activities either at the beginning of the month or from the middle of the month, so please tell our staff which option you would like to take.

Can I engage in activities with Toracon without my family and those around me knowing?

You will be contacted by Toracon either from your personal member page, your specified email address, or your mobile telephone.
Additionally, you can request us not to include our company name as the sender when sending you items by post. It is possible to keep your matchmaking activities secret from your family and those around you.

There may be cases when informing your family suddenly about a proposal may lead to them opposing your plan, so we would recommend you letting your family know that you are in a serious relationship when you enter the serious dating phase.

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